To know and to believe It is important to recognize that the only opinion of you that matters is your own. Once you've fully understood that, life is more likely to potentially be a breeze. It is also equally important to acknowledge that "when you attach too much value to your thoughts and emotions, you can not see life the way it is." - Sadhguru  Don't dwell too much on what you feel; make yourself feel what you want to feel. As they say, "fake it till you make it", it's all about believing. Believe in yourself. Easier said than done but a little effort goes a long way. The universe works in wonderful ways, and it's a universal principal that your outer reality is reflected by your inner world: your thoughts, feelings, behaviours, and actions are reflected externally at the same vibrations as they do internally. The universe is a mirror, your mirror. So in order to see the desired reflection of one's self/life you have to be willing to give the...

Villain so hard you become a hero Gasslight, gatekeep, girlboss So this is a half assed apology to anyone who's fallen a victim to my friend (sorry not sorry) and a lesson for the rest aspiring to Girlboss like her. Now, don't worry I'm not swaying off from the topic of putting forth my girlboss viewpoints, there's a conclusion and a lesson in this blog too. The truth is, I could've written about any of the positive people in my life (which truthfully I haven't got many) but the most interesting stories come from the most vile villains. Don't get me wrong, I'm not exactly calling my friend evil, all I'm saying is she posseses most of the traits a villain is likely to have. And she's villained so much to the point she's become a hero.   Now for most of you, there's no exact way of telling whether you've been victimized by her or not which is worst than actually knowing and accepting ur flaws as an outcome (because I must admit her judg...

Call me crazy or call me a fool but I genuinely believe that wherever you are in life right now and whatever you're going through, you've brought it upon yourself. Harsh, I know but that just pushes me to explain it even further. You might've heard the   saying "you're a subconscious creator of your reality", more specifically on Instagram or Pinterest ;) but there's so much truth to those 7 and a half words than you believe there to be and those who get it have a far more chance of going farther in life then they would've w ithout knowing it. I know I know you can't defy fate or whatever but fate can also not defy you; It's yours, you're not it's. Okay so let's just cut to the chase because we all been knew there are so many books about the power of manifestation by incredible authors and life coaches out there, but this one's from the point of view of a fellow gen z person who's recently just turned 18 hence is OBVIOUSLY w...